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How long should an MBB wait before leading?

Ideally, longer is better, but MBBs rarely experience ideal circumstances. Paul warned Timothy to not allow new believers to become leaders because they might become prideful. Yet, Paul selected leaders in churches after sometimes knowing them for a few weeks to a few months. His actions seem to indicate that he expected rapid growth.

MBBs may have no Christians around them, and they may be used by God to lead Muslims around them to the Lord. Leaders would then be needed for small groups and even churches. MBBs may need to assume responsibilities earlier than some Christians feel is appropriate. The key is, as always, to follow the Holy Spirit. Paul did that. Even so, some leaders made mistakes in his time that needed correcting. The growth of the church has never been error-free, and there are always messes.

Some say that the key to leadership selection is to see who keeps showing up. There is certainly merit in demonstrated faithfulness as a qualification for leadership, but please do not discount the role of discernment. A wait-and-see approach may leave an MBB church without needed leadership and stifle growth. Also, note that leaders may not always continue doing what they were doing previously – Joseph was in jail one day and helping run Egypt the next; David was anointed to lead Israel while tending sheep; and Saul was on a quest to imprison Christians when he was called to lead. Please do not be too dogmatic about process because God does not always require a specific process, as can be clearly seen in the life of Joseph.

If you are an MBB leader and need to appoint people to leadership, trust God to guide you to the right people through prayer. Use the biblical qualifications for elders and deacons to guide you when looking at character, and be prepared to monitor the progress and growth of your leaders. If you see areas needing correction, address them supportively and with the goal of finding God’s best for those leaders and those they are leading.

To do all of the above, MBBs will need to study leadership in the Bible, and the writings of Paul are especially helpful. My book, Discipling Muslim Background Believers, covers selecting leaders as well as having an intimate relationship with God in which you can grow in your own ability to hear the Lord and to lead and select leaders.

Keywords: MBB, leadership, selecting leaders

Grace and mercy

People need both grace and mercy, but what are they? How do they impact our lives? Many people use them interchangeably, but they are not the same thing.

Mercy is the unmerited favor of God — we get good that we do not deserve and we do not get the punishment that we do deserve. We receive mercy through following Jesus as Lord and savior, and receive forgiveness and life through the crucifixion of Jesus and His resurrection. We are given mercy by God so that we can be saved, and are saved by grace through faith.

Grace, according to Strong’s Greek Dictionary of the New Testament, is “the divine influence upon the heart, and its reflection in the life.”  It is a gift from God.  The Greek words also convey a sense that the giver of grace is leaning towards the receiver.  The receiver has favor with the giver.  The giver’s acts will confer benefits on the life of the receiver that will become evident in the receiver’s life.

Grace contains some of the idea of mercy in that grace is not deserved.  Based on the definition in Strong’s, an amplified definition of grace involves God’s action on a person’s heart which results in at least two things: the desire to do God’s will and the ability to do God’s will.  These two things produce a godly impact in a person’s life.  Please note that God’s favor comes before the performance of God’s will.  In Christ, you have His favor before you act.

Keywords: grace, God’s action on a person’s heart, mercy, undeserved favor

One of my favorite discipleship passages

31 Jesus therefore said to those Jews who had believed him, “If you remain in my word, then you are truly my disciples. 32 You will know the truth, and the truth will make you free.” John 8:31-32 WEB

“Remain” has the sense of “living in” or “continuing in”. It does not simply mean reading the Bible, but rather reading it, understanding it properly through study, and living it out as God would have us do – following Him as Lord, loving Him, and loving others.

Keywords: Bible, discipleship, John 8:31-32, truth, freedom

You’re not an MBB, but you led one to the Lord. Now what?

You know that your friend will face disorientation and great risks (please see my last two posts), and that errors could be very costly. You want to help your friend prepare for what’s to come, but you don’t know how because you haven’t been down that road. Your friend is leaving soon, and you do not have time to read entire books written by MBBs — you need answers quickly because your MBB friend has an urgent need for information and advice. Your friend also may be prevented from contacting you again, and there are no churches or Christians within several hours of your friend’s home.

You need a book that will tell you how to help your friend follow Jesus; tell family and friends about conversion to Christianity; prepare for and react to persecution; learn to evangelize; learn to set up small groups; learn spiritual warfare; and learn to survive in the midst of perilous changes. You need to also tell your friend about being a secret believer for a period, if need be, and how to not mix Christianity with other beliefs. To gain all of that knowledge in a short time would be impossible unless the book was organized into short, easily referenced, biblically-based sections. The sections would need to be intentionally written by an MBB to answer questions like yours as well as help your friend through discipleship.

Such a book exists, and there are accompanying Bible studies to help the new convert disciple others. It is called Discipling Muslim Background Believers, and is available on the home page of this website.

Keywords: MBB discipleship materials, Discipling Muslim Background Believers

What does a Muslim seeker risk to follow Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior?

There are a host of risks that a Muslim seeker considers prior to becoming a Christian. There are also associated questions to answer. Some of the risks and questions are below, from the perspective of a seeker:

Losing God and heaven: The way I believe says that becoming a Christian means hell for me. Am I sure about Christianity?

Losing nation, culture, community and family: If my family and community reject me, I may have to leave my family, community, culture and country. Will I even fit in anywhere? Will people value me for who I am rather than treating me only as a convert? How will I properly pass on the heritage that I still love without family and community support?

Losing status in life: I value the status that I have because of my family name and my own status, but could lose all of that if my family and community follow Sharia law. What will become of my life? Will I also be disinherited?

Losing friends: If my friends reject me, I will be very lonely, especially if my family does and I also have to leave. How will I be able to cope?

Losing financial security: Because of community reaction, I may lose my job if I stay and will almost certainly lose it if I must leave. How will I survive? Also, if I have to leave in a hurry, I may lose all of my possessions. Again, how will I survive?

Losing my life: If I become a Christian, those around me, and perhaps even a stranger, may use Sharia law or the country’s apostasy law to kill me or have me killed. Is it worth dying to follow Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior?

A Muslim seeker faces losing his or her identity, relationships, possessions, future and even his or her life if he or she follows Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Muslim seekers face an immediate hurdle of laying down their entire lives to follow Him. From talking to hundreds of Muslim background believers — former Muslims who now follow Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior — the answer is clearly, “It’s worth it!” God provides help, mercy and grace, and meets needs. The road is rarely smooth, and is often difficult, but I can tell you from experience that knowing God in Christ is worth paying any cost.

Keywords: Muslim seeker, cost of conversion, worth it